Eye contact is where the battle is won or lost.
And right now? Most of you are losing.
You’re making one of two fatal mistakes. You either stare at her unblinkingly like a serial killer (creepy), or you constantly break eye contact and look at the floor because you’re intimidated (weak).
Neither gets the girl.
You need to find the sweet spot between intensity and seduction. You need The Triangle.
The Technique
Imagine an inverted triangle on her face. During the conversation, when she is speaking, I want you to trace this shape with your eyes.
- Look at her Left Eye.
- Shift to her Right Eye.
- Drop your gaze down to her Lips.
- Bring it back up to her Eyes.
Why It Works
This is a biological short-circuit. When you drop your gaze to a woman’s mouth, you are subconsciously signaling intent.
Her brain instantly registers one thought: “He is thinking about kissing me.”
It doesn’t matter if you are talking about taxes or the weather. That glance at her lips spikes her adrenaline. It creates a vacuum of sexual tension. You aren’t saying it, but your eyes are screaming it.
The Execution
Slow down.
Do not dart your eyes around like a nervous squirrel. This must be smooth. Deliberate. Lazy.
Hold her eyes. Dip to the lips for one second. Return to the eyes. Let the tension hang in the air. Make her wonder if you’re about to make a move.
Up Next…
You’ve got the eyes down. But it means nothing if you’re standing like a servant.
Most men subconsciously shrink themselves to appear “non-threatening.” I’m going to show you how to take up space and project dominance without saying a word.
READ TRICK #7: The “Lean Back” Power Move
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